Saturday, January 16, 2010

Confessions of a true Chick-flickaholic

P.S: This is a post-dated post that I should have posted a long time ago.. just didn't get around to doing it.
How long ago was this? Just think about the week that "Confessions of a Shopaholic" came out in the cinemas.. Yep~!! THAT LONG AGO~!! =p

Just went to watch the show "Confessions of a Shopaholic" and I LOVED IT!

Yih Ming told me that it is a waste of money (he thinks) but he thinks that all women can identify with it. I COULDN"T AGREE MORE!!

Can't say for other ladies... But what I could identify with is NOT the craazzyy shopping sprees nor the shopping lines... But the facts that:

  1. Our parents are the ones saving and we are the ones spending!
  2. Money SHOULD really be spent on the things we love! (regardless of what others think it's worth!)
  3. There ARE really clothes that brings you LUCK and LOVE!
  4. That when you run into any sort of trouble, parents/family are the only reliable people that you can always lean on. Because what really defines you is not the clothes you wear or the things you have. What defines you are the people you love!!
  5. When women talks about shoes and fashion, it REALLY DOES MAKE SENSE!! It's just how you apply it and where you place your perspectives. After all, we ARE talking about everyday life!! keke...
  6. The Best Way to Kick a Habit is to FEEL GOOD KICKING IT!! So if someone is trying to QUIT SMOKING (AHEM~!), please try to feel good quitting it. Replace it with some other things like eating a sweet, or chatting with people, or kissing... (somehow i think the last suggestion will get people moving~ hahah~ So, WHO"S WITH ME?? hahahahahahah)
  7. Moves that comes naturally could also be cultivated... And doing things your own way could reap results too!!! (like hitting the Fins because you dun understand finnish... if you watched it, you know what I am saying... hahaha..)
  8. OH~! and I really must tell you about the FAN! Such a signature!! haha... things you could do with a fan are endless... Being thrown into a situation where you don't know what to do, just be yourself!!
  9. Most of us do lie... although some of us do lie more than others due to a certain reason, there is ALWAYS a reason why people lie. DO know that you can TURN YOUR LIFE OVER at any single point of time, so be HONEST, especially to the ones you LOVE!!

True Love...

Interestingly, a colleague of mine loaned me a set of VCD, titled "Seducing Mr Perfect". She promised it'll be a fun, romantic comedy. I have to totally agree... but snaps of the movie got me thinking about true love.
"Mr Perfect" - Robin Heidan, played by Daniel Henney, depicts a successful businessman, who views love as a game and doesn't believe that true love exists. However, in truth, he has been deeply hurt by love once and it is because of his past that got him jaded and cynical about love.
Truth is, who isn't? Who hasn't been hurt by love, whether once or many other times, such that we have all become jaded and cynical about what love is and means? Moreover, being jaded means we no longer trust our own feelings, ignoring the signs of love, and reject the idea of true love being possible. If so, how will we be able to accept true love even if it comes knocking on the door?
Personally, I believe in true love... and I believe God made one woman for every man out there. Hence, my true love is lurking somewhere out there, waiting for me. But we are all made to think of Mr Perfect as someone like Robin Heidan, the perfect epitome of man with it all: young, handsome and successful, with a touching, sad story that melts the hardest of hearts. Someone with lots of love to give, yet he's hurt and jaded about love; someone who is undeniably attracted to his object of lust, yet tries his hardest to deny that love. Now, don't we all love such an arrogant, yet sensitive; tough exterior, yet with a fragile-heart-on-the-inside kindda man?
Yet, how often do we meet such a man?? Or, should I put it, how do we truly recognise such a man? I believe that men are too often mislead by such a notion, that they will try their damnest not to show their soft side, and try too hard to act tough, arrogant and totally egoistic. Whereas females are even more sorely mislead by such epitomes that they are forever looking for the soft spot in the tough, arrogant man to swoon over... it looks like two blindfolded people trying to find each other... even if they stand right infront of each other, they can't see the other.
No wonder they say Love is Blind. In such circumstance, it is often not possible to look for love... you've got to feel it. However, if being jaded means not to trust your own feelings, then all love is lost.

Nonetheless, in a chick-flick like "Seducing Mr Perfect", love has it's own way of finding two people eventually and have a happy ending... Can't we all have that "happy ever after" in real life??

Ahhh... the power of chickflicks... (^-^)


Wednesday, January 06, 2010

What we are living for...

Just finished watching "Changeling"... it's something that i've always wanted to watch (since more than a couple of people told me that it is nice) but didn't have the time. I am sooooo glad I took the time to watch it today... before the rental is due tomorrow.


I was already crying somewhere within the first half hour of the movie, where Christine Collins, played by Angelina Jolie, couldn't get any assistance in trying to find her child and to have the police throw suspicions in her face and she couldn't do nuts about it. Many a times, given our current depiction of women in the modern society, scenes like that would not have happened. This film got what it aims to do: depict the sorrow of the women in the 1920s, who could not even protest over something as small as defending themselves against the anger of men, to something involving the life and death of another, albeit a child. But to me, it also shows the beginnings of a woman's independence; the start of men helping woman to find their place in the society of men, and to allow a mere woman to seek justice in times of injustice and corruption.


Another phrase during this phase stuck with me... when Reverend Gustav Briegleb, played by John Malkovich, exclaims, as he leads Christine Collins through the crowd of demostrators, " the works of God is a mystery" or something that indicates that God works the miracles of life, and in giving you what you wish for, in a mysterious way that you could never comprehend, but it will come.


The confessions of Sanford Clark, played by Eddie Alderson, as being an accomplice to his uncle, the notorious serial killer, Gordon Northcott, played by Jason Butler Harner, was very emotional and discerning. In fact, the events of this overkill section of the plot, is entirely disturbing; if not for the fact the plot centers on and around Christine Collins, this would have been a totally psychotic and disturbing film. Right from the part where Sanford admits to being the accomplice and taking part in the murders, to the part where Northcott was finally hanged, plus the ENTIRE scene of his hanging, the whole show is highly charged with hidden emotions and there was a depth to the whole movie that you will seldom find in popular movies. All the shots were slow and clean and simple, yet the emotions came through, especially Angelina Jolie, whose distraught came through in a thoroughly dignified manner. God, how I wish I could be more like her~!!!!


Another thought that came to mind was when two women, SANE women being held in a asylum against their will
and was instantly connected through the injustice of their "crimes", came through for each other in a way that no others but them could have. One braved mental electrocution after trying to dislodge the other from the clasps of the staff; while the other worked to free the other from a life of condemnation in the asylum. It doesn't matter if you were a lady or a woman of the night, when thrown into a common circumstance, we are all just woman, alike. And no matter how much of a lady you may be, there are just some situations where you will have to be flexible and use the uncouth or unorthodeox methods to get where and what you want.


The last scene was the most endearing, yet most sad; the most unnerving, yet the most hopeful scene of the whole show. Yea, but life is a paradox. I felt that this ending really suited the desires of the film-makers and it really brought the film to focus.. [Quote]


[He (Michael Owens, Visual Effects) felt the abrupt cut to black pulled the viewer out of the film too quickly, and that it left no room for emotional reflection. Owens said, "There is a legend at the end before the credits. The legend speaks to what happened after the fact, and I think you need to just swallow that for a few moments with the visual still with you." Owens told Eastwood the film should end like Chinatown (1974), in which the camera lifts to take in the scene: "The camera booms up and she walks away from us from a very emotional, poignant scene at the end, walks away into this mass of people and traffic. It’s very hopeful and sad at the same time."[57]


Really, this ending gave me a spurt of hope and the realization that HOPE, is really the reason why all of us strive and persevere over certain matters, to the point of obstinance and rebellion. Because life is full of strive, corruption, negativity and vice, that we need to hold on to something to remind ourselves that this is THE reason why we have to hang on, hold on and walk on. HOPE, is also what GOD brought his son, JESUS to earth. Whereever he went, he inspired HOPE; he gave everyone HOPE.... whether HOPE of salvation, or HOPE of redemption and love, HOPE of repentence and forgiveness. And with HOPE, he inspired FAITH. See, this film struck a cord with, not just one, two, or even a small group of people. Judging from all the awards and boxoffice results that it has been given, it has clearly struck a cord with a WHOLE LOT of people. The question is, WHY?


I believe the answer could still be summed up in one word... HOPE.